STRAP-ONS

Vibrating Velvet Harness

This harness cut into me like something fierce!!!! This is the very first harness I've ever tried and having it cut into my bits specifically between my legs every time I moved (and no it wasn't too tight) was a *very* dysphoric and unpleasant experience. I am a bio female for reference.

Even if it did work it takes bizarre N type batteries that no one has. And the pocket for the bullet is located where neither person would be pleasured by it. Low quality materials round out this p.o.s. Very disappointing.

Fits around both my girlfriend and my waist, but too small around our thighs.

Great for a starting harnesses, the straps are extra long so you have to trim them so you don't just have lots of extra straps hanging around.
Over all a great buy!

We purchased the Bend Over Beginner Kit because we are beginners. We weren't sure the size we'd like. Turns out that the sizes in the kit were perfect for us right now. The harness is fairly comfortable and when positioned right, the vibrator is perfect to provide simulation to the wearer. The harness is easy to adjust when switching wearers. I couldn't rate it 5 stars because the fabric, while soft, is starting to tear. It may not be our forever toy but we will happily use it while it lasts.

We had purchased this product years ago and really enjoyed it. But it was lost in the move (hope whoever stole the box enjoyed it too). When it came time to purchase a new one, I bought this same one again. Easy to use, easy to clean.

As someone else here said, the smaller one is really small, but it comes in handy for the giving partner, since the straps leave the tender bits exposed and ready for play.

I started getting into pegging and was nervous about asking my girl. She was a little hesitant but she agreed. The kit comes with 2 but I think the smaller one is fairly pointless so you would probably find yourself using the medium fairly quickly.

I don't think I've ever purchased a sex toy kit that has gotten as much play-time as this one. My partner and I were both fascinated by pegging and were keen to give it a try. This kit gave us everything that we needed to dip our toes into the water. The two dildos are perfectly sized for beginner play. The fact that they are smooth and simple with no ridges or textures means that they're ideal for exploring anal play. They glide in smoothly and are easy to control and clean after play.

The harness is a fine beginner harness. Easy to wear and adjust to fit. After using this a few times, I got a bit annoyed with the excess length of straps that were left after adjusting the harness to fit, so I just trimmed them off. Now that I know I love wearing a harness, I'm ready to upgrade to something a bit fancier, but this one was the perfect introduction.

The vibrating bullet is a nice touch but it's probably the item that we've used the least. It sits snugly in the front of the harness but it was tricky to get it to line up with my clitoris and stay in place. The bullet is fun to play with on it's own though.

If you're interested in exploring pegging or anal play, this kit is a great place to start.

Harness is easy to adjust and get on and off. The bullet gives enough power for pleasure to the wearer. The dildos are good quality and perfect for a beginner experience. Machine washable strap is awesome. If you're just starting out, this is the place to go.

This kit is great. It doesn't come with a super durable or nice harness, and the bullet isn't great, but customer support is all about helping out, the materials are safe, and this allows couples who want to try out pegging to do so without dropping a lot of change up front, while getting something they'll still be able to use long after the harness is replaced or upgraded. My gf and I are quite thoroughly pleased with our purchase.

Fits well with adjustments, exactly as described. Haven't had a chance to play but it is comfortable to wear.

Dildos are nice. Harness is cheap, not worth it.

This is a fantastic product ! My wife and I enjoy enjoy another woman in bed and they both love giving and receiving with it. After getting used to the he harness with the medium and large dildos, the Goddess or Duchess toys makes a great addition.

This makes DP a lot more fun especially since my wife is more bi than guy when it comes to playing with others.

Thank you Tantus!

My wife loves this harness. The silk medium and large are perfect. Worked up to the large and it was worth it!

Excellent for relative newbies. The medium is a great starter. The large is an excellent one once you get used to it. Great addition to the bedroom!

Amazon Connoisseur Harness

I am a plus sized user and this still fit me well, sat in a comfortable spot, and felt flattering to my shape. The velcro made it very easy to adjust. The one downside is that the sound of velcro ripping isn't exactly sexy (well... not to me anyway) but the benefits to the strong, flexible fit are worth it in my opinion.

The leather of this harness is very soft and comfortable, and the harness is completely adjustable. When you get the dildo into place, it is very snug and you can move around/ even walk with this on and it feels completely natural. The only down side is that the photo colors are off from what I actually got (actual product is more pink/ magenta than purple/ blue as the photo appears on my computer screen). Other than that, it is a perfect product!

This is seriously the most comfortable harness I've ever had the pleasure of wearing. The toy sits perfectly and you can move around without feeling like you're going to lose the harness or the toy! Absolutely stunning.

This was far more comfortable than I ever anticipated and the soft leather didn't chaff of bind. I'm terribly sorry to see they will no longer be in stock.

I bought this harness because I liked that my partner and I could both use it, given the adjustability of the straps. It easily accommodates my wide hips and her narrower hips, but when I say the velcro is loud, I mean it. It's very secure, which is great, but as a result you hear a very unpleasant ripping sound when you separate the pieces to adjust...which you inevitably have to do multiple times, and then repeat for the other side. It's a major buzzkill, and loud enough to be heard from another room. But it's important to get the straps lined up right, because if not you or your partner will be subject to very scratchy velcro on your skin. It also is "thong" style, so be prepared for the strap to wedge between your cheeks. Not a negative, just a Thing To Know.

All that said, it is functional above all, and quite easy to clean with diluted vinegar. If the straps are lined up, it doesn't chafe. It's a bit of a struggle to get in place, but with some elbow grease the Flurry O2 fits adequately. The base is a bit tapered, so it's not the sturdiest, but that shouldn't be an issue with a dildo that has a more clearly defined base edge.

The one thing you can almost always count on with any sort of strap-on play is the amount of time that is going to go into getting the harness on and everything situated properly. It can be easy to incorporate that into play, but sometimes it can be a bit of a mood-killer. For the times that you just want to skip the formalities and go to town, this is the perfect harness. I typically use the Mark or a Pack n Play with this harness, and they fit perfectly.
The velcro is super strong and easy to adjust, and I haven't had a single problem with the harness coming loose or adjusting during play. My only problem with it is that I have slightly longer labia, so the strap that goes between my legs (even with as wide as it is to avoid this very problem) can pinch a bit. It's easily avoided by me wearing underwear in addition to the harness.
At first, I was a little concerned about lubricants staining the white garment leather, but even with extensive use with water based and silicone lubricants, the leather cleans up beautifully and hasn't stained a bit!
All in all, I absolutely love the Nurse harness. It's beautifully made and will last a lifetime!

I got this as we have been experimenting with Pspot, very soft material, but it keeps its shape relatively fine, great for missionary position as it’s perfectly shaped for it. The only issue we had was the vibrator did not work (have not checked to see if a new battery was needed) but we swapped to a different bullet vibrator and she said she didn’t feel much

The only reason this isn’t 5 stars is because the bullet vibe arrived and won’t work, even with a change of batteries. I love the harness and my boyfriend loves the dildo. it’s pretty big for a beginner but he’s getting used to it. Again, great purchase but I wish I could have fun with the vibe too.

My gf and I got this kit as an intro to pegging. We have another smooth narrower dildo that we tried initially in this harness that fit great.
Then we used the curve and wow was it good. Hits the P spot very well and is a good thickness. It’s nice and flexible and the texture feels incredible. High quality product all around

I’ve tried a bunch of different strap ons and even some other brand strapless strap ons and nothing even slightly compares to the tantus. It’s heavy which makes it hard to keep in (especially when super wet) but that is my only complaint and even that isn’t that bad. If you have strong pelvic muscles, you won’t have much trouble. It looks great and makes me feel like I actually have a dick which gives me so much gender euphoria. And then it works so well. I have been able to get really well acquainted with it and now using it is so natural to me. It’s easily my favorite toy. The craziest part? I can actually feel things. Once you learn how to use it, this toy will change your life.

As a straight, married female, I got this to wear around the house when my husband isn’t home. I was curious about having a dick and wanted to experience the fun. This was bigger than I expected, but when I put it in, it was perfect! I have a huge pussy, so there’s no way the bulb end will stay in without panties on, but I figured that would be the case. I am enjoying wearing this under my clothes around home and keep going to the mirror to see and feel the bulge. It feels great to stroke the soft shaft of this dildo and feeling the balls between my legs is great. Would definitely recommend this dildo if you’re curious about having a dick and enjoy the looks of packing.

4/5 stars is a compromise between the two following uses:

SOLO PLAY: 5/5
This feels like having a dick. It looks amazing and natural. You can jerk yourself off and feel it - it's never been enough to get me there alone, even with the bullet, but it's come close, which is pretty incredible. It also doubles as a big dildo with a convenient handle - very easy to control. The one thing I would say is that it would be nice if there were more options for darker shades of nude - it's fine for me, but I wish even more people could enjoy the natural look.

HOOK UPS: 3/5
It's a big heavy dildo, so it is a little trickier to bring with you on a promising date than a strappy harness you can fold up, and it's too rigid to pack and go. I also find it takes a little more experimentation/adjustment with your partner than other kinds of harnesses do. (Also lube, let me say again this is a big rigid dildo.) However, it can still be fun to play with if you have a big enough bag and your partner is in synch with you, and it is a very high quality product that I feel safe using. I can imagine that it would be very rewarding to get the hang of with a long term partner.

This is amazing. I really hope that you guys keep making updated versions, maybe even a cyber skin one. It stays in, makes all the right contact, and really really helps with gender exploration. Great experiences both solo and with a partner. I'm seriously obsessed with this product.

bought it because my girlfriend & I thought it was an absolutely amazing idea & saw great reviews. it caused her & I some pain (not because we weren't ready for it, the angle was a bit harsh & the ridges were a bit too defined.) it led to be very disappointing.

I’ve been waiting to buy one of these for two years. Every time I pull up the site, it’s out of stock. Can you provide a way to sign up for an alert when it’s back in stock?

Do u think u can produce some smaller size for asia girl use... I have been looking a smaller size for ages but never find it. Becoz all strapless didol with better quality are too big for asia tomboy

I'm a straight guy into Pegging. I've been lucky enough to have two different women Pegg me using the Slim. On both occasions the women climaxed. Simply incredible. It's thinner girth means less pain, but a very realistic look and feel. Check it out. Once the women insert it, and 'wear' it, it looks amazingly real.

I'm a transgender male, so as a result I don't have a penis attached to me. My partner and I have discussed various toys and done extensive research, and this was our best result. It feels real, looks real (the tent in my pants when I wear it can attest), and is all around a great toy.

Title says it all. I love this toy.

Tantus Strapless™ Strap On Slim

It's a high quality product with a nice shape and color, but unfortunately the size of my belly combined with the way it sits inside me makes it difficult to use as intended -- it doesn't stick out far enough, but kind of goes straight up. I took off one star for that but it's not really Tantus's fault, just something to be aware of if you're big. (I'm a 55" hip for reference.) Am definitely still shopping Tantus for a replacement harness-style dildo.

I got this on a whim if we're being totally honest, and wow. I was pleasantly surprised when it didn't fall out while using it. Would definitely recommend.

I’ve heard great things about this particular product! There have been many reviews online saying the vibrator is lacking. Does your “original bullet” fit in to replace it if I have to? Thanks!